Most young gamers want a fast-paced game. The first games to come to mind are "Minecraft" and "Fortnite," which are easy to play thanks to their simple mechanics and gameplay.
While games could bring enjoyment to the kids by testing their critical thinking skills, befriending other gamers, and solving problems together, they also come with some negative impacts.
For parents, supervising what their child consumes online is a must, especially when it comes to online gaming. This way, you can better understand how gaming influences your child's social experiences.
The Surprising Social Benefits of Online Games
Despite all the controversies about screen time, multiplayer games can be socially fulfilling. Children who have difficulty relating in real life find solace in the common objectives, vocabulary, and tactics of online games. The cooperative play needed in co-op modes or the friendships forged during marathon sessions often translate into enduring online friendships, and sometimes real-life ones.
For children who are socially anxious or introverted, gaming can be a gateway to feeling accepted and included.
The Flip Side: Social Challenges in Multiplayer Gaming
While multiplayer games present wonderful opportunities, they can also be problematic for children with social challenges. The interactive nature of these games ensures that bullying, exclusion, and emotional distress can happen, just as they would in a schoolyard or playground.
In competitive games, "trash talk" tends to be accepted. Some of it is just teasing, but it can immediately become aggressive and hurtful, particularly for sensitive children who dislike criticism or fights. For parents, you can encourage your child to avoid players who insult, even if he/she treat another kid as their friend.
Another trouble spot is trolling and harassment. Trolls usually seek to elicit responses through insult or sabotage, which can be particularly damaging to children emotionally attached to the game. What you can do here is teach the kid how to deal with toxicity by reporting the behavior of the troll.
Online anonymity is another trouble spot that can breed impulsiveness and rule-breaking. Children will misbehave, thinking there are no consequences because nobody knows who they are.
Make sure to explain digital etiquette to the kid and remind him/her about its real-life consequences. Tell the young gamer never to post any personal details like home address, phone number, parents' names, and more.
Furthermore, navigating social rules is also necessary for every parent with a gamer child. As an adult, observe the child while playing. Demonstrate how the game is played so your kid can learn and gain confidence within a familiar environment.
Finally, some children have a hard time dealing with competitive pressure. To address this, parents should shift the gaming mindset to enjoyment rather than performance. Encourage effort and progress over success.
If your child needs to, look for less competitive games that are better suited to your child's ability.
Video games aren't going anywhere—but with the right support, your child can enjoy the benefits while avoiding the pitfalls.
